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The Young and the Tactless is the 21st episode of the third season and the 67th overall. This episode marks the first appearance of Woody Harrelson as Nathan.

Karen gets rid of her mother-in-law by leaving her with Jack and Will for the night. Grace gets to know an oddly charming neighbor.

Synopsis

The Goiter

Karen is stressed out as her mother-in-law Sylvia Walker is in town so she finds refuge in Will's apartment since as she puts it, Sylvia "will never think to look for [her] in government-assisted housing". Later she brings her to the apartment and Will and Jack are surprised to see a meek and well-mannered old lady instead of the monster Karen built her up to be.

Ep 03 21

Hot tea, please.

However, Karen leaves before Will and Jack could notice, getting rid of Sylvia and leaving the two no choice but to bring her along to a gay bar.

At the bar, Will is disappointed that no one is interested in him so Sylvia consoles him, stressing "how do you expect anything in your life to change if you don't change?". With Sylvia's words, Will takes a chance and gets a date with a younger guy named Scott. When Will thanks Sylvia for encouraging him to break his pattern, they find out that she is extremely homophobic and is unaware that she is at a gay bar with two gay men.

Nathan

Grace goes to confront her obnoxious neighbor who took her wet laundry out of the dryer when he tells her he is making a mixtape for her girlfriend whom he had a fight with. When Grace points out how ridiculous it is, he engages her by pointing out that she is living with a gay guy instead of being in a relationship.

Later, Grace finds his underwear mixed in with her laundry so she comes up to his apartment again where he invites her to a Venice-inspired dinner. Grace is confused so he explains that he set it up for his girlfriend Vicki who rejected it, which infuriates Grace. As she expresses how insulted she is being offered a "used" night in Venice, he kisses her and after a beat, she agrees to go on one date.

Cast

Main

Guest

Notes

  • Title is a play on the long-running soap opera The Young and the Restless.
  • Although Nathan becomes a recurring character from this episode, his name is not mentioned until 2 episodes later in The Last of the Really Odd Lovers.
  • The Atom Bar is a homophone of Adam Barr, a writer/producer for the show. Scott works at Gail and Patty's Video, after writer/producer Gail Lerner and make-up artist Patty Bunch who worked on the show.
  • Jack accidentally blurts out that Karen is at least 42 years old as of this episode. Mullally is exactly the same age at the time it aired.
  • Will and Jack sing and dance to Madonna's song Music (2000) at the apartment.
  • Mr. Zamir is seen in the laundry room in his underwear and a sleeveless shirt. His habit of not wearing a shirt in the laundry room was prohibited by the Tenants' Association during the season 2 episode Election.
  • Grace mentions her co-dependent relationship with Will regarding the need for the other's approval in dating other people. This is further delved into in the episode Fred Astaire and Ginger Chicken when Will starts dating Vince.

Cultural references

  • While talking to Nathan about his mixtape, Grace references the ending of Casablanca (1942).
  • Jack asks Sylvia if she ever regrets "throwing that big blue diamond in the bottom of the water where the Titanic went down," a reference to the ending of the 1997 film Titanic where the 100-year old Rose threw the diamond necklace into the sea.
  • Jack implies that Karen is connected to the condition of socialite Sunny von Bülow, who was still in persistent vegetative state back then. Her connection to von Bülow is referenced again in Someone Old, Someplace New, where it is implied that they are close friends.

Quotes

There's a roll of quarters in my top drawer right beside my eye cream and my pedicure kit. Wow. My dad would be so proud of me. Will

Stanley's mother's in town. You gotta let me hide out here. She'll never think to look for me in government-assisted housing. Karenat Will's apartment

Will:Karen, wouldn't it be better to just to learn to deal with her? I mean, think about it. She's the mother of the man whose bank account you love. That relationship's not gonna go away.
Karen:I see where you're going with this, Wilma, but... I can't have her whacked.
dealing with her mother-in-law
Nathan:Hey, you're a girl. What is the most romantic Megadeath song?
Grace:What?
Nathan:Well, I had a big fight with my girlfriend. She says I'm aimless and don't have any ambition, so I decided to make her this tape: "Heavy Metal Songs of Love and Devotion."
Grace:Hey, good plan. Yeah, you know, I always thought that if Humphrey Bogart had just made Ingrid Bergman a mix tape, she never would've gotten on that plane.

You're gonna give me relationship advice? Yeah, that's what I need. Then maybe I could find some nice gay guy to live with for the rest of my adult life. Nathanto Grace

Ha ha. Oh, honey. I got a fake laugh with your name all over it. Karento Will's joke

We have to be at the club in less than an hour. And I still need time to soak and spritz before I can sizzle. Jack

Jack:When clubbing, I put my phone in my underwear.
Will:Yeah, that's just so when it rings, you can say, "wanna grab that?"
Will:Get over here and pick up your mother-in-law.
Karen:I will when you get over here and pick up your mother-in-law!
Will:I don't have a mother-in-law!
Karen:Then the deal's off!
Jack:It's official. We're dating.
Will:Which one? The one on the right or the one on the left?
Jack:Yes.
Scott:Do you want to go? Maybe get some dinner afterwards?
Will:I don't know.
Scott:Why not?
Will:Well, for one thing, in the 80s, when I was wearing safety pins to look cool, you were wearing them to stay dry.
Grace:Did you put your underwear in with my laundry?
Nathan:I needed to get you up here.
Grace:Ever hear of a Post-It?
Nathan:Uh, yeah, but then my underwear would still be dirty.

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